Protecting The Crown

Category : Formation, Lessons, Lifestyle, Uncategorized, example, how ya' livin', witness

There is a show that I watch called Human Target, which is a pretty good show by the way. The recent episode was about the Princess of Wales. There was a negative twist in the plot, but one of the lines said was, “I am protecting the crown.” There was anger over some things the princess was doing and the thought was that she was disgracing the crown. The premise behind protecting the crown is that there is a reputation there that must be maintained at all costs. This is an idea that does not just stay in the monarchy, but makes its way into several sectors. In the mafia or La Cosa Nostra there is an ideology that no one is above the family. What each person has to do us uphold the family. In New Jack City it was said that “No man is above the crew.” This is what it is all about. It is the responsibility of each person to do whatever possible to uphold, uplift and maintain the rep of the crew, gang, mafia, monarchy or family.

As beleivers we have the exact same responsiblity. Everyday and in everything we need to do what is withn our powers to porect the crown. The crown that was worn as Jesus died on the cross and the crown that He wears as king. If we wake up every morning with it on our minds that we are protecting the crown I wonder how our actions, thoughts and words would vary and change. There has to be an understanding that we are representing a kingdom. With this in mind we understand that it is not about us as individuals. Most time our decisions are all about us rather than the crown that we are protecting. This needs to change. This is something I remind myself of everyday because I want to do a good job for the crown.

All Money ain’t Good Money!

Category : Formation, Lessons, Uncategorized, how ya' livin'

First let me start by saying, “Sheesh! I have not blogged in about a month. What is wrong with me?” Okay, now let’s get back on topic. I live in the South right now, but I am a Cali boy at heart. That being said I enjoy an occasional game of dominoes. How about you? When people are new to dominoes they make immature plays just to get on the board. They make panic plays when they are pressed into a corner. Can you see where I am going? Maybe now, let’s continue. :-) We all know that the scoring in dominoes is by 5′s. With this in mind the lowest you can score is, you guessed it ~ FIVE. Many times the immature players will try to score quickly and all the time. All they want to do is score. Don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with scoring. You need to if you are going to win, but dominoes more than scoring is a game of strategyas well. I remember the early days of playing dominoes I would try to score quickly and small and one of the other players would say to me, “All money ain’t good money.”

Here is my point… Many times in life we go for the easy way out because we are backed into a corner or we do not clearly see all of our options. What we end up doing is opting for a temporary or easy solution. It is harder to wait for and strategize for the good money so instead we shoot for the easy money. Remember, according to what are called dominologists“all money, ain’t good money.” Our lives should be strategized and patient. What are the fruits of taking the easy money? There are get rich quick schemes, lotteries, gambling and one night stands. It is easier to pull a lever and spend a few dollars than it is to work, save, sow and invest. It is easier to pick someone up at the club and have sex than it is to court them, get married and have your life partner with lots of days of sex. Can you hear me now? Good…

Let’s live our lives out with strategy and patience and not chasing after the next hot thing. Hot things become cold. I’ll see you at the domino table.

Who Is It About Anyway?

Category : Church Planting, Church Stuff, Uncategorized, how ya' livin'

Let me warn you… This is a little bit of a rant for a Wednesday afternoon. I was driving by a church recently and saw a huge billboard with a picture of the pastor and the church slogan. Not even the church name, just a huge picture of the pastor. The picture took up over 80% of the entire billboard. I know, I know, that was a little extensive right there, but it speaks to my point. It seems that many times we lose out on what the focus of the church should be. The church becomes hugely person and personality driven. Do not get me wrong, I understand that the church many times is a reflection the personality of its pastor, but it is not supposed to be about the pastor. So with all of this my question becomes, “Who is being promoted in your ministry?” It is this kind of promotion that causes the people to be scattered when a moral falling happens. The people were zeroed in on the pastor and not Jesus. Do I sound a little dogmatic? Maybe. However, I think over the last few years many of my ideas about the church have evolved. I have gone to some church websites where you have to search to find a picture of the pastor. In my estimation the focus is being intentionally focused on the church and the Jesus of the church. I am not going to go on for a long time, but I just want us to check our intention as pastors when it comes to who is being promoted. Peace!

The Untouchables!

Category : At the movies, Community, Connections, Cultural Relevance, Formation, Lessons, Lifestyle, Spiritual Fitness, Uncategorized, evangelism, example, how ya' livin', witness

Okay, show of hands. Who likes The Untouchables? I love that movie. It talks about a great era, which I love. I love the 20′s era gangster stuff. This movie detailed a group of lawmen called the Untouchables. They were tasked with the mission to stop Al Capone in prohibition eta Chicago. As usual for me I find something in a movie that works as a ministry point. I think it may be a preacher thing where lots of things can be illustrations. At any rate, there is a scene in the beginning of the movie where Ness is selecting officers and law enforcement to be a part of the Untouchables. As he looks through the classroom type space where the officers are he says, “I know many of you take a drink now and then, but since that is what we are fighting against let’s not do that anymore” (paraphrase).   His whole point in saying this was to say that the Untouchables had to cease participating in the things they were supposed to be rallying against. This speaks volumes to believers.

How many believers have done or do the things that their code (the bible) says that they are supposed to be against. I know many people criticize the church because they say they are always against something. The truth of the matter is that there are things that believers are against and are supposed to be against as well as things that believers are for. In order for the witness to be the most effective believers need to make it a point to not participate in the things they are going to have to stand against. Elliot Ness wanted there to be a moral authority to their crusade against prohibition. How do we live that out in our everyday lives? Sometimes it seems that we want so much to be a part of the crowd that we put down what the original instructions were. Elliot Ness said to stop doing what they were doing if there were going to do what they needed to do. We need to live right lives and be an example. The question for us needs to be what are we wanting to be an example of? Elliot Ness has an important message for us from the 1987 movie that should work its wat into our 2010 lives.

No Quitters Allowed

Category : Community, Connections, Cultural Relevance, Formation, Lessons, Lifestyle, Spiritual Fitness, Uncategorized, example, how ya' livin', witness

My family joined the vast group of wii owners during this past Christmas season. Everyone has their favorite game on the wii or better yet, the game they each excel at. However, my son is still trying to find the game he likes the best. While he searches for what suits him best he went and played a few of the games. After a while since it took so long and produced a little frustration he said, “I QUIT”… Duh, duh, duh (dramatic movie danger sound track). Things got a little hard and required more effort, determination and work and my little man said, “I QUIT”. My son is not a quitter, but in this instance he was. I had a quick thought when that happened. I asked myself, “What am I?” In addition to that I asked, “What are you?” Are you a quitter?

Once thing I have seen with people is as soon as things get a little hard and a little inconvenient we bail out and quit. It seems easier to quit and throw in the towel than it is to scratch and fight to finish what we started. When we look at many marriages we see it all of the time. Either spouse will stand before a preacher and invited guests and declare their undying love for each other. They will share endless and heartfelt vows. About a year later the spouse finds out some not so good things about the other spouse and the spouse bails. What? What happened to, “Till death do us part?” Somehow the commitment had become inconvenient to keep so we bailed. Life requires that we fight and fight hard. Life will throw things at you that make you want to quit, but that is not what we do. We fight! Look at those in Haiti and all they are experiencing and fighting through. So many of them have hope and are still fighting. Which of you reading this blog is going through anything even close to what is happening in Haiti? My thoughts exactly.

So, the next time life gut punches you and you experience trying times do not back out and quit. I know it is an old school cliche’ saying, but “winners never quit and quitters never quit.” Do you want to win?

A Hero for TODAY!

Category : Amazing things, Community, Connections, Cultural Relevance, Formation, Lessons, Lifestyle, Uncategorized, evangelism, example, how ya' livin', random acts of kindness, witness

What can I say? Everyone loves a hero. Would you agree? I hope so. The heroes that we have today are not the ones we see featured on the image above. No tights, capes, superhuman strength or underground caves with bats as friends. No, the heroes we have today deal with larger hurts and crisis situations and their response is no less awesome. It is even more awesome. The help they gives does not come by way of super power, but they come by way of love, a concern for people and relationships. If I had to point to a hero for the here and now (totally subjective, you may choose someone else) it would be my buddy Pastor Shaun King. He is the lead pastor of Courageous Churchin downtown Atlanta. They recently celebrated their one year anniversary. In that one year they did far more than several churches that I know of with more members and bigger budgets. There is a heart that beats within Pastor Shaun that aches and breaks for God’s people.  Here is a quick rundown of some of the major things Pastor Shaun and Courageous Church have done within the year.

  • Supplied toys and school uniforms for the children of Stanton Elementary School (2 Christmases in a row)
  • Started Hope ATL to assist with supplies, money, shelter, demolition and etc for the 2009 Atlanta flood
  • Positioned Courageous Church and those within his reach to respond huge to the Haiti Earthquake
    This has shown itself by way of money, sending neurosurgeons, coordinating rescues and numerous other   things.

Do not  get me wrong. I am not necessarily promoting a man or doing any kind of idol worship. However, I do recognize the calling on his life and appreciate his heart for God’s creation. Truth be told when we see things on television happening in other countries or even on our own street corners we get very apathetic. Sometimes we shed a tear and sometimes we do not even do that. In the final analysis we do not do anything. There should be something in us that jumps when we see tragedy whether it is over the seas or across the street. God created us to have a concern and a desire to help people who are in need. I so admire this hunger, thirst and yearning to help “the least of these.” If you were to ask Pastor Shaun he would not make a big deal of it because these heroics (and this is what they are) are commonplace to him. This is who he is. What he does, how he leads and how he loves inspires me. It calls be to be a better church planter, pastor and believer.

If you want more info on Pastor Shaun and Courageous Church, check out the following;

www.courageous.tv
www.shauninthecity.com
www.hopeatl.com
www.theywilldie.org

Friends! Part One

Category : Amazing things, Community, Connections, Cultural Relevance, Family Matters, Lifestyle, Relationships, Uncategorized, example, how ya' livin'

Alright folks… We are back into the Friends blog series. I took off for a few days. It is back! Remember, we are looking at a biblical view of friendship. I think one thing that can inspire us about friendships are examples of friendships. When we look at the bible we see David and Jonathan. David was the up and coming young man who would eventually be King of Israel and Jonathan was the song of the now king and he himself was next in line. Did you get it? David was going to be king and Jonathan was next in line, but not going to be king. With all of this they were the best of friends in spite of the differences and what could have been a point of contention they loved each other very much. When I look for a modern day example I have to go a little younger than David and Jonathan, but effective nonetheless.

I wish I had a picture with me to post so you can see, but maybe i will post it tomorrow for you. At any rate, the example of the David and Jonathan friendship I am referring to is my daughter Aria and her BFF Kendi. However,  i think BFF may be a little light to describe the love shared. Check this out;

  • They refer to each other as sisters
  • They have unconditional love for each other
  • They get excited to wear the same things
  • They have some of the same pains
  • They cry when they leave each other

I could go on about these things, but I won’t for fear of typing too much. In a matter of speaking their friendship is awesome and so the kind of thing God wants us to show to our friends. Our families are pretty close to each other, but these two trump even that. :-) The friendship they share is so special. I pray quite often that the friendship they have now will remain forever. My pastor back home in Los Angeles refers to his friends as being knittogether in the spirit. If there were even any two people that fit this mold my daughter Aria and Kendi do %100.

Okay, there is our friendship example and we will jump into some practical stuff tomorrow…

Peace!

Friends!

Category : Community, Connections, Cultural Relevance, Daily Babble, Family Matters, Lessons, Lifestyle, Uncategorized, how ya' livin'

Okay, don’t leave the blog yet! Finish the read. I know you are saying, “Friends, what’s that about?” Yes, I did watch the show Friends, but that is not what this is about, at least not directly. A few days ago I published a Twitter and Facebook update about God’s design for friendship and how it is mentioned in the bible. One of my Facebook friends asked where? So, this is my attempt to answer that question.

I will not jump into anything today, but over the next day or so I will be laying out some of what the bible says in regards to friendships. There are things that we are supposed to be in friendships and ways that friendships can bless us. I read a tweet this morning that asked the question, “Don’t you wish you had friends like Ross, Chandler, Joey, Monica, Rachel and Phoebe?” Hmmm….

See you tomorrow ~ Peace!